tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-62442607067804266482024-03-19T02:58:44.941-07:00The Artist Daniel Nie -- Thinking Outside the BoxThe Artist Daniel Niehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10205118792640275096noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6244260706780426648.post-9304561014850296052015-10-08T12:48:00.001-07:002015-10-08T13:09:35.468-07:00A Net Gain Good<br />
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said, "A man is never grown up until 30." I would say a man never
tries to be smart until 50. At least that was in my case.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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age of 50, I knew I could no longer work harder to get ahead, but I needed to
work smarter in order to be an "old winner." However, I found out
that it was a bit too late, when you are already 50 or older, to start to learn
how to work smarter. I wish I knew this when I was younger. It is funny how I
overlooked this idea of working smarter in my younger years.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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fact, there is a better way to manage one's life. A smart starting point is to
check up on your life, to make a list of your current lifetyle, and to figure
out how much money you actually need to maintain this lifestyle or a lifestyle
that would be even a bit better than the current one. What I have found was
that I really did not need as much money as I originally thought to keep my
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what I need to eat, I do not necessary need to shop at a more expensive, fancy
food market, rather than the casual ethnic food store where the same food
usually costs much less. For what I need to wear, I do not need those brand
name jackets. I only need clothes that will keep me warm as those from Walmart.
(I am not endorsing Walmart.) Will people look down at me for being too cheap?
After 50, my life is for yourself not for impressing other people. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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age of 50, you just cannot fake anymore about your wealth. If you are poor, regardless
what kind of jewelry you wear. If you are rich, the world also knows. When you
are over 50, you just cannot fake <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>it any
more, not even your age.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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smart thing I have learned after 50 is that I started to count my net income
instead of telling myself what I made in gross. As a self-employed person, I
could easily live in an illusion of having a high income but remain poor
because high business expenses can eat all that I have made.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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used to love to hear words from people praising my achievements. Now I see this
attitude as being silly. Now that I am over 50, I love to hear people criticize
me and my work. Because when people say how wonderful I am, I learn nothing. When
people criticize me, because they care, and I learn. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span><o:p></o:p></span><br />The Artist Daniel Niehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10205118792640275096noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6244260706780426648.post-1980592509990350932015-10-06T08:27:00.002-07:002015-10-06T08:55:22.183-07:00Mars vs. Venus <h2 class="date-header">
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">In the old days, it was writing love letters. Now it is texting love messages that lets the lovebirds stay tuned to each other all the time.<br /><br /> Oh, yes, some things never change. How about sinking in a sweet moment<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>of<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>dream with your lover in a sofa, without noticing that hours have flown by.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">As a father of a young adult, I have some knowledge to offer young people. If you are a mature young adult who is considering your future marriage, you might be wise to keep in mind that your dating life should not imitate the pure playful style that high school kids may prefer.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">You should wisely spend your time getting to know the person you are dating. If possible, find out about his past and his family background. You may be busy working or studying, which means your time is very valuable. So when you have chance to talk to each other or to spend time together, you want your time to be well spent.<br /><br /> Playing games in the dating process is not only childish but very stressful. For mature young adults, games should never happen in the first place. The best way to learn more about your partner is to open yourself to your partner first, then ask your partner to do the same to you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">Telling each other about loving each other is not enough; you need to understand each other’s philosophical outlook about marriage, family, society, the world, etc. If you two can increase your understanding of each other’s view point, along with learning from each other, growing together while you are building the bond of your love, then you will have an easy and pleasant path toward establishing a common philosophy that will be the only security for an everlasting relationship. Of course, the chemistry between the two is another requirement. A good marriage cannot exist without both of these key elements.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;"><br /> In modern times, divorce happens more frequently than it did in the old days. This phenomena is due to a lake of multiple “strings” that used to be together to hold a marriage in old days.<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial","sans-serif"; font-size: 10pt; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt;">I often think, divorce is a very costly<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>thing to most people. I think I cannot "afford it." Having said that, it is OK for people to get out a marriage that is beyond repairable, and it is also OK for someone who does not want to get married again, simply wishes not to go through this process once more.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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